For you Moms...

(from my sweet friend Ashley....just the perspective I needed on a day like today. Hope you enjoy reading this as much as I did. I also think my teacher friends can relate.)

The Invisible Mother.....
It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response,
the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone
and ask to be taken to the store. Inside I'm thinking, 'Can't you see
I'm on the phone?'

Obviously not; no one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or
sweeping the floor,or even standing on my head in the corner, because
no one can see me at all. I'm invisible.. The invisible Mom. Some days
I am only a pair of hands,nothing more! Can you fix this? Can you tie
this? Can you open this??

Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a
clock to ask, 'What time is it?' I'm a satellite guide to answer,
'What number is the Disney Channel?' I'm a car to order, 'Right around
5:30, please.'

Some days I'm a crystal ball; 'Where's my other sock?, Where's my
phone?, What's for dinner?'

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the
eyes that studied history, music and literature -but now, they had
disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's
going, she's going, she's gone!?

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of
a friend from England . She had just gotten back from a fabulous trip,
and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was
sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well.
It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself. I was feeling
pretty pathetic, when she turned to me with a beautifully wrapped
package, and said, 'I brought you this.' It was a book on the great
cathedrals of Europe .
I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her
inscription:
'With admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one
sees.'

In the days ahead I would read - no, devour - the book. And I would
discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after
which I could pattern my work: 1) No one can say who built the great
cathedrals - we have no record of their names. 2) These builders gave
their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. 3) They
made great sacrifices and expected no credit. 4) The passion of their
building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A story of legend in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the
cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a
tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man,
'Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that
will be covered by the roof, No one will ever see it And the workman
replied, 'Because God sees.'

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was
Almost as if I heard God whispering to me, 'I see you. I see the
sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does.

No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake
you've baked, no Cub Scout meeting, no last minute errand is too small
for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral,
but you can't see right now what it will become.

I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As
one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see
finished, to work on something that their name will never be on.
The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could
ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing
to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend
he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, 'My Mom gets up at 4
in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a
turkey for 3 hours and presses all the linens for the table.' That
would mean I'd built a monument to myself. I just want him to want to
come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend,
he'd say, 'You're gonna love it there...'

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if
we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world
will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that
has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible mothers.


Share this with all the Invisible Moms you know... I just did.

1st day of Preschool

So, today was a big day as little man began his school career. Oh, what he has to look forward to!! :) I am one proud mama, I must say! He walked right in, headed straight for the blocks and started playing. No tears! (for him or me!) Oh, if I must mention, he walked right past multiple tantruming children, which I was afraid would set him off, but nope. And when, I picked him up, his teacher reported he had a super day, played well, and even took a nap. Wow! Mission accomplished.
Kendall, also, had a wonderful day. She has been looking forward to going back to school and went right in and got to playing with her friends. She told me she painted a turtle and played kitchen. So, how could she not have fun!
Hope you enjoy the pictures.

Oh Jace....

A couple of must share Jace stories...
I took the kids to "meet and greet" tonight at the preschool. Kendall couldn't have
been more of an angel....walked in, introduced herself, sat in her assigned seat, colored w/ her classmates. Jace, on the other hand, was quite the little devil. I walked him into his classroom and looked down to find him gone. Yes, he ran out of his classroom and into the classroom across the hall that has an indoor playground. He wanted nothing to do w/ going back into his classroom no matter how hard I tried. Oh, his poor teachers. Now that Jace knows that playground is there, they should have an exciting day trying to keep him away.

And the funniest story....I put Jace to bed last night and about 30 minutes later, I hear "Mommy, Mommy." I open the door to his room to find that he has pulled his portable potty onto his bed, stripped down and is using the potty. Yes, all right there on top of his bed. And did I mention he had missed....a lot....and was smiling at me.
That's my Jace! :-)

Happy Birthday Jimmy!

The big 3-3! Happy Birthday to an amazing husband and Daddy! We love you!

We are moving!

So, I am finally getting a chance to sit and post something about our move. Jimmy accepted a position with Enterprise as Assistant Vice President of the South Central region. He will now work at the corporate office for Enterprise which is located in St. Louis. This is a wonderful opportunity and I am extremely proud of Jimmy and this accomplishment. There are definitely some mixed emotions about leaving TX. We certainly have grown to love it here and have made lifelong friends. Who knows...maybe one day we will be back. :)
We have been house hunting and the area of St. Louis where we are moving is really beautiful. I am happy to see rolling hills and trees. We've yet to decide on a house and are anxious to see what happens with our house in TX.
There is definitely more to come on this subject and hopefully news of a new home.

Jace's Big Boy Bed

Yes...we did it! Jace is in a big boy bed! It is still hard for me to think I no longer have one in the crib. He has been doing great with staying in the bed, well except for his occasional jumping. ;)

South Carolina Trip

We had an awesome time w/ Mimi, Pap Pap, Aunt Jenn, Zac, Kenzie, and Ty while we were in South Carolina. The kids had a blast with their cousins and really enjoyed swimming at Mimi's pool and visiting the beach. It was Jace's 1st beach trip and he would've spent all day digging in the sand if he could have. We also stayed at Mimi and Pap's river house in Beaufort. Talk about beautiful! Thank you Mimi and Pap Pap for an wonderful time!

4th of July

Gammy and Papa joined us for a 4th of July parade in our neighborhood. The kids decorated their wagon with all the goodies that Gammy brought. Despite a slight drizzle, it was really a great time for the kids.

My new 'do

Yep...no more blonde for me. Well, for a little while at least! :) After months of contemplation, I went to the salon last week and told her to dye my hair back to my natural color. She told me I may be in shock at how dark it would be and while, yes, that was true for the 1st day or so, I've actually started to like it better. It's definitely a change since I've been getting highlights since highschool.

Disney Princess Dance Camp

This past week, Kendall went to a ballet and tap dance camp. On the last day, the girls wore their princess dresses and the parents were invited to a recital. Kendall was front and center and did a great job, well except for a bit of stage fright. ;)